No matter what happens in your Life, you will have to spend its' entirety with yourself.  You should, at the very least, like yourself.  Prioritize your own well-being and happiness before seeking validation or love from others.  By loving and valuing oneself, you can cultivate a healthy sense of self-worth, establish boundaries, and engage in positive self-care practices.

Loving yourself requires distinctive attitudes, including:

1. Self-acceptance: Embrace who you are, including your strengths, weaknesses, and imperfections. Acknowledge that you are a unique individual with inherent value.
2. Self-care: Prioritize your physical, emotional, and mental well-being. Engage in activities that nurture and rejuvenate you, such as exercising, eating well, getting enough rest, practicing mindfulness, and pursuing hobbies you enjoy.
3. Setting boundaries: Learn to establish and maintain healthy boundaries in your relationships and interactions. This means recognizing your needs, respecting your limits, and communicating them assertively to others.
4. Positive self-talk: Be mindful of your internal dialogue and replace self-criticism and negativity with self-compassion and encouragement. Treat yourself with kindness and understanding, just as you would treat a loved one.
5. Personal growth: Continuously invest in your personal development and growth. Set goals, pursue new experiences, and challenge yourself to learn and evolve.

Remember that loving yourself is an ongoing process and may require conscious effort and practice. It's not about being self-centered or narcissistic but about recognizing your own worth and taking care of yourself in a healthy and balanced way.